[Tfug] Accidental extra netbook computer
Bexley Hall
bexley401 at yahoo.com
Thu Jul 31 20:15:56 MST 2008
> > Contact the shipper. *They* have to do the work, not
> you.
> > You shouldn't have to "pay" (time/money)
> for their
> > mistake.
> >
> > When I've been in similar situations, they've
> sent a
> > UPS/FedEx
> > guy out with a box to pick it up (on one occasion, a
> > freight
> > company came out to crate an item).
> >
> > If it is a *private* individual who has mistakenly
> sent
> > something
> > to me, I try to contact them. Depending on their
> > "attitude",
> > I may take the time to box it up for them and run it
> to
> > the Post
> > Office *if* they send me prepaid postage. On one
> > occasion, I
> > even drove an item to the original shipper.
> >
> > OTOH, if they act outraged or inconvenienced and
> expect
> > *me* to
> > bust my ass to cover their blunder,
>
> Does this really happen?
Yes! I had one lady *tell* me that I chould drive it
over to her since she was "only a few miles down the road".
(i.e., in *her* mind, it was just as easy for me to
drive it *to* her as it would be for me to drive it to
the Post Office.)
> If after all that, were anyone to question your motives,
> (even if you kept it) I would call them a dumb ass.
People are amazingly demanding. I once purchased 5 pounds
of "super colossal shrimp" (i.e. 5 per pound) and a couple
of pounds of crab meat (I stuff the shrimp with crab meat
prior to baking). When I was told the bill was $22, I just
smiled and said "what's wrong with this picture?".
The owner of the store got all pissy and effectively accused
me of being disreputable. I just pointed to the 5 pounds of
shrimp ($12/pound, at that time) and the 3 pounds of crab meat
(I think about $7/pound) and *then* pointed at the total on
the cash register.
I got neither an *apology* nor a "Thank You" for catching
his $60 error (in *my* favor)
> > I reward their
> > ungratitude
> > by dropping the item in the trash. (i.e., *I*
> didn't
> > benefit
> > from the transaction -- removes any opportunity for
> > questioning
> > your motives:
>
> If this were to occur... what a waste that would be.
> Gratituously trashing a new and useful piece of equipment
> designed for FOSS out of some "moral" sense of,
> "At least *I* didn't benefit from it."
Well, for *me* it works quite well. I never question
whether or not I subconciously/deliberately didn't go
that extra mile just so I could RATIONALIZE keeping
an item for myself.
Of course, *your* moral compass may be set differently...
> All the fossil fuel created millions of years ago who
> perished that ultimately created the plastic used in the
> case... Wasted. All of the brainpower, effort, energy and
> pollution generated to produce the item.... Wasted.
No, all that is "wasted" is the material and energy used to
produce that *one* unit. And, that assumes you dispose of
it unwisely.
> If in a similar scenario, and the OP were inclined to trash
> the item, I would recommend to donate the item to a charity
> instead. (but not to World Care)
Donate it to a battered woman;s shelter, etc. WorldCare
gets *thousands* of computers each year. You're far better
off giving it to someone with an actual *need*.
> > "Was I uncooperaive just so I could *keep* this
> > item for myself?")
>
> GOd forbid!
What do *you* do when a package of *cash* gets delivered
to your front door by mistake? (I mean thousands of dollars)
What direction does your compass point?
> > I'll confess my tolerance for accommodating
> people's
> > blunders
> > has fallen precipitously in the past decade. If *you*
> > (shipper)
> > can't be bothered with this item, then *I*
> (unintended
> > recipient)
> > can't be bothereed, either!
> >
> > <shug>
>
> Do you do things where you rely on a team, or largely by
> yourself?
Both. My products don't see the light of day without a lot
of teamwork. On the other hand, I have no problem relying
on individuals for their particular talents, unquestioned.
Some things teams just can't do well; other things, individuals
can't do well.
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